Tuesday, March 20, 2007
I need a hair cut. It makes me sort out my thoughts better. Haha. Actually it's just getting out of shape & i really need to trim those ends lah. But speaking about thoughts, something hit me yesterday & i've been having this gnawing urge to post an entry regarding that but i've decided to let it lay low for awhile more & see how it goes. Bcos with raw emotions comes raw words & yes, my vocab can be quite raw. I'll try to be gentle & diplomatic & we'll see where all this heads.
Basically, what defines a true friend? I think it's one whom stands by you for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness & health. Yup, just like how a typical wedding vow goes but of cos you all know where the similarities end lah. I have oways, to my knowledge, tried to be as good a fren as possible. Maybe sometimes i dun live up to expectations bcos i'm human after all & sometimes there's so much going on in my own life to be fully sensitive to others but yah, i try my darndest.
On the flip side, when i hit a low point in my life, i can see who are my true frens bcos they care about my well being more than anything else & they are the ones that offer kind & comforting words and end up saying 'whatever your decision, i'll still be by your side'. And they keep to their word.
When you are not strong enuff to make the 'right' decision, they understand that you are but human & they say 'take your time' & deep down inside they do wish that everything will work out for you so that you'll be happy again, may it be the 'right' or 'wrong' decision. When it comes to matters of the heart, there's never a right or wrong answer cos happiness & feelings are involved as well.
Anyway, when it comes to a point when they mock you for a decision you made which they deem wrong or they kinda give up on you, i think some serious thinking has to be done. Different people have different transitions in life. Learn to accept everything that changes about your frens & not fault them for it. Accept them for who they are & remember that just bcos they are not like you or think like you, then they are wrong.
So to all my darlings who have stuck to the vows, til death to us part! Haha. I never tire of telling my frens how much i love & appreciate them bcos trust me, those who stuck by me thru tough times in the past really shines.
Some may be wondering why this sudden entry. Let's just take it as it's not directed at anyone or any instance in particular. For those waiting to gloat at any of my 'misfortunes', too bad, my life is going great right now. For those who truly love me, this post is to let you all know once again how much i love you & i'm happy bcos of all of you!!!
Ok, you all can so tell i'm bored at work again right. What's new..
Asphyxiated at at 10:49 AM
