Tuesday, November 06, 2007
Back to being busy today. Soon my fingers are going to cramp up and my eyes are gonna tire.
Yesterday, went for porridge steamboat buffet dinner with tubs & my bitches. Hope Chixy likes her bday pressie!
Now, I would like to say something. It’s touchy but I still feel I gotta say it bcos I thought it was totally uncalled for. It’s not to pick a fight, but to let you know since you are so hard to talk to nowadays. I’m not in the most comfortable position as those involved are so close to me. I would have dropped it but it did cause someone to feel uncomfortable and that person chose not to retaliate and I can’t bring myself to just let it go. It has nothing to do with me but I feel that I’m the only one who can stand up and say something about it. I hope you take some time and think about that comment you passed. You may think it was a subtle comment but I’m telling you now that it had more effect on others than you know.
Firstly, think about whether that comment was directed at the right person in the first place. If someone is present, maybe bcos they were invited? So to make the clueless ‘guest’ feel like they weren’t supposed to be there is just wrong.
Secondly, if your other half wasn’t invited bcos he announced that he wasn’t free before he could be asked, whose fault is it? It may be meant as a joke, but it oso demeans the invitee. To be ‘rejected’ before someone can even ask, you can’t really expect that person to ask after that right. It becomes like begging in a way. Aiyah, I dunno how to say la. It may sound petty but I guess you can only understand if you put yourself in that person’s shoes.
And it’s all these coupled with a lot of other things that has been going on for the past week or so that makes everything very frustrating. There’s only so much I can act like nothing’s happening but it can get tiring and it’s tiring only bcos we are concerned friends who can’t get thru to you.
To not wanna open up on your own is one thing, to be prompted to share what’s wrong and still insisting on ‘nothing’ is another thing. What are we to do in a situation such as this? As much as we love you, you can’t just show us a sudden change in attitude and expect that we know what’s wrong. Try to open up to us and talk about things next time ok?
Ok that’s enough of that for now. I’m so looking forward to the holiday on Thursday. Mandy is tempting me by asking me to club on Wednesday but I know I will be very crabby cos everywhere will be packed. There won’t be any space to dance & going for a smoke will be a real pain.
Later in the afternoon, there’s a one on one annual review meeting and it’s making me nervous .Dammit.
Asphyxiated at at 11:23 AM
